Most funeral homes are very kind and compassionate, most will help guide you through what needs to be done, and allow you to see baby a day or so after leaving the hospital. If you don't want to visit with baby again, you can still drop off some little clothes, blanket, or teddy bear.
Many people may have baby stuff, or possibly the baby's whole room set up. You do not have to rush to any decision on these items. Many like to keep the door to their room closed for a while, or pack up baby's items and place them out of sight. You can just wait and see what you will choose to do with baby's things. It will never be easy to sort through all these items for the first time, but it will be easier if you give it some time.
Some options...
We strongly urge you to keep some of babies things. A special toy or blanket you can cuddle when you miss them, or sew some of their clothing into a quilt or teddy bear. Even if you feel you might never want to be around these items, you may feel different years from now.
Many parents donate much of their baby's things to local women's shelters, toys for tots, or other charities, and just keep a few special items of their baby's. Others keep everything, as it is. Some families have more children and use their Angel Baby's clothing and items for them.
There is no rush on your feelings, you can and will get through this! It is heartbreaking and overwhelming, but you are not alone. There will come a day where you can talk about baby with out crying, and happily look upon their photos. It might be in a couple weeks or for others over a year. You can get there. Connect with others in Facebook Support Groups (if you need referrals, just Email) or ask your hospital for in person meetings. Please take a look on our "Resource" and "Remembering Baby" pages.
If you need something else or have more questions please email us at LittleLoveDonations@yahoo.com or through the contact area to the right.
